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Shirlywhirl, M.D.
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My fellow physicians. We gotta keep nurses’ names out of our mouths.

My thoughts: a lot of us in medicine martyr ourselves. We’re trained to. We are told by executives, admin, patients, and our own role models that our sole role is to serve, that we are immensely privileged to be in our profession (which we are), that we get paid well enough that we shouldn’t complain about the service we signed up for. I often get told that I am “brave” for pushing against this concept, which I think is dehumanizing and makes us ripe for exploitation by people looking for inexhaustible worker bees.

I would think & hope our frustration would translate to more collective action. But instead…I see a lot of the ire about these issues- issues that originate within OUR profession– being put on NURSING. We’re upset that nurses have administrative positions. We’re upset that nurses have expanded their practice over the years. We’re upset, in a lot of ways, that nursing as a profession has negotiated a perceived better work/life balance than we have. And we’ve rallied behind entire organizations whose whole purpose is to take down nursing institutions, even though half the time we’re the ones hurting ourselves. Y’all! We could get our bag too if more of us could get it together!

I think there’s a lot of nuance to this take, including elements that I encounter in training that I hope my followers who are advanced practitioners / nurses consider, & I’ll try to get to it in my story. But I also want to point out that when I said I was going to post this comic, I got TONS of gleeful DMs assuming it was going to be slamming on nurses for interpersonal slights. And I promise you, if that’s the discourse you want to be having, there’s plenty of it on Twitter. And disclaimer since the internet likes to think in black & white: this isn’t meant to diminish any negative interpersonal experiences that any of you, esp women, may have had. (I’ve had those too! I’ve drawn about them!)

Using my morning covid energy burst to edit my first tiktok-y #tiktok, which I ofc used to trauma dump, @jakademik_md how did I do? #medstagram #shirleneobuobi #blackdoctors #womeninmedicine

I am really really bad at keeping secrets, and I’m so glad to get to announce this one! EXPOSURE, my second novel, will be out in Summer 2024.

I call EXPOSURE my burnout book. I had a few chapters of a different Cardiology related novel written for my second novel, but when it started feeling like a prison instead of an escape, I knew I had to switch gears. There was so much pent up trauma & frustration leftover from the pandemic, from residency, that needed to be released. And y’all know I create at least in part to cope 😂

And so I conceived Josephine “Jo” Boateng, who has curated an image of herself online as the embodiment of feminine power (brilliant, beautiful, defiantly single), but has also neglected her personal life, only half dealt with her childhood trauma, and who feels a tremendous amount of guilt about leaving her primary care practice for locums. It’s hard for Jo to believe that people would love her if they really knew her. And then she meets Mal, who is authentically awkward, well-loved, and himself settling into a new life, and, well, you’ll find out what happens in 2 years.

Like ON ROTATION, EXPOSURE is meant to do a lot of things at once: showcase an experience, educate a bit about the state of medicine from a physician’s perspective, and, most importantly, tell a love story.

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All the African parents who send their kids to my page for “inspiration” aren’t gonna like this one.

I frequently get asked for advice/ mentorship by premeds. And while I don’t have the bandwidth to provide personalized advice, I can give you this.

My selfish reasons for pursuing medicine: 1) I honestly have a hard time doing anything just because I “should” [ see: continuing to prioritize my art at great risk to my career lol ] and had a hard time feeling motivated or excited about other professions 2) have a savior complex / read a bunch about social justice & medical bias and was arrogant enough to think I could put a crack in that 3) get dopamine rush from good patient interactions 4) a desire to be respected / admired for my expertise 4) a stable profession with an almost guaranteed 6 fig income 5) familiarity with the profession because my mom is a doctor 6) a general fascination with the human body.

Some of these have held up over the years (mainly #2). Others have not. Looking back, I don’t know if I would have chosen differently. I still want to practice clinical medicine. But I want to practice in a way that avoids moral injury (meaning: longer appointments, adequate staff support) and still allows me to do the things I love with the people I love, and I know that I won’t be able to do that without being part time. Which, given hospitals squeeze as many hours and responsibilities out of docs, will probably mean that after 14 years of training, medicine might end up being my “side hustle.”

How would you advise students who are considering careers in medicine?

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A quick bday wrap up post.

I’m 30 now. I’ve felt 30 since I was 28 & have been conveniently rounding up for patients who think I look too young, to friends when I’m complaining about being “a grown ass woman, thank you very much.” Medical training + the pandemic + my adopted country literally & figuratively burning itself down have aged me. You ever look at med school grad pictures of your residents and think “dang, you went through an Obama presidency?” That’s me, but on the inside.

Still, I’m so very young, and so very lucky. My life is full of love. I feel comfortable & confident in my skin and in who I am. The little gap-toothed girl with an accent, early-onset acne, & an obsession with anime could never have imagined that her art would become something visible to the world, that she could follow all her dreams at once. She would never have dreamt up her wonderful husband, or her intensely loyal and loving friends. She couldn’t have imagined having a platform where people listened or cared about what was in her head. Honestly, in many ways, she couldn’t have fathomed the happiness, the security, the fulfillment that I’m lucky to feel most days. I’m teary-eyed typing this, because despite appearances, being able to feel this way about myself took a lot of hard work.

Anyway, thank you @rissmneilson , @buu_who_ , @sashiiimii_i & @jennyhollander (who planned the whole shindig 🤩) for giving me the best 30th bday weekend a girl could ask for, and to all of my day ones and day 10,950s who make everyday worth celebrating. 💛💙

Heard the new first year 🫀 cardiology fellows were starting consults. Godspeed, good luck, & remember you chose this life

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This required wayyyy too much effort to get together. #neveragain

All right. Obligatory you do not have to agree with me. I’m not judging anyone who DOES feel strongly about being addressed by the “Dr.” title. This is about me and how I feel. I don’t mind being called Dr. Obuobi (by the way, pronounced Oh-bow-bee), but most of the time I go by my first name. This is how I feel most comfortable.

An aside - I am NOT comfortable when patients in a clinical setting insist on calling me by my first name if I haven’t invited them to- hence last week’s comic!

Thoughts?

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The last couple months have been a whirlwind (two weddings! Book release! Book launch! A virtual tour!) but I also got to meet SO many creatives I admire in real life!

@rissneilson - one of my best friends and soul sisters, author of DEEP IN PROVIDENCE 🌸(moar like deep in my heart amirite)

@toyawolves - author of LAST SUMMER OF STATE STREET (just picked for Steph Curry’s book club! Congrats girl!)

@katiegutierrezwriter - author of MORE THAN YOU’LL EVER KNOW, extreme talent & my WM debut buddy

@docblerdyviolinist - Family Med / Psych resident by day, INCREDIBLE violinist by… also day, and overall phenomenal human

@thebaddr - author of THE LADY DOCTOR & THE BAD DOCTOR - no holds barred accounts of two very human very fallible physicians, #graphicmedicine royalty

@coupdegracefarris - author of MOM MILESTONES: THE TRUE STORY OF THE FIRST SEVEN YEARS and other adorable/ incredible/ relatable comics & imho Gwyneth Paltrow lookalike

@themirandasun - author of IF I HAVE TO BE HAUNTED, out fall 2023 (she’s like 22 y’all! A bb! So proud! 😭)

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I still draw comics y’all! Though… to be fair, I drew this one months ago.

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So…um… the last 24 hours have been surreal. I had the opportunity to talk about ON ROTATION on Good Morning America, and got to meet the incredible @robinrobertsgma (who is so poised, beautiful and kind irl), and watched my book gain “bestseller” tags on Amazon & Barnes & Noble. I know that not every creative gets the chance to feel the emotions I’m feeling right now. I know that I’m extremely blessed & well loved & didn’t get here by myself. Thank you so much to my team at @harpercollins , notably my editor Lucia (who I finally got to meet irl!), my publicist Emily, my marketing team (including but not limited to the incredible @danifinnegan & Deanna), and ofc my tireless agent, @helmliterary . There’s so much more to come that I cannot wait to reveal!

In the meantime, I’ll be taking over the @harpercollins Instagram on Friday - so if you have any questions about my writing process, please tune in! At 10am CST on July 8 I’ll also be doing a @booktalkevent with the STEM-romance queen herself, @alihazelwood ! If you get a chance, please check it out!

And now… The Fit (everything Black-owned, baby!)

👗: @boutiquebronzeville (make sure to visit them; their rotating collection is amazing & the owners are so kind & fun) 👠: @shihirah MAIYA shoe 👛: @brandonblackwoodnyc

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